Go-Karting, everyone likes go-karts and if you can't have fun go-karting, then your probably not that fun... Dinners are nice, but for first dates they can be horrible. Best to go have some fun, chat...  see more >>

Go-Karting, everyone likes go-karts and if you can't have fun go-karting, then your probably not that fun... Dinners are nice, but for first dates they can be horrible. Best to go have some fun, chat about this and that and go grab a bite to eat if it feels right. :) 2nd date could be a lovely dinner with some great wine. Atmosphere is everything :)

I do not like or want to build a scenario as I would want a true first impression that allows someone to take the control and surprise me. I believe this tells a lot about a person which is important...  see more >>

I do not like or want to build a scenario as I would want a true first impression that allows someone to take the control and surprise me. I believe this tells a lot about a person which is important to me

Honestly, I think it depends on the person. and your sense of adventure. Bankrupting yourself at a ridiculously expensive restaurant (only to be starving an hour later) usually won't impress anyone. F...  see more >>

Honestly, I think it depends on the person. and your sense of adventure. Bankrupting yourself at a ridiculously expensive restaurant (only to be starving an hour later) usually won't impress anyone. Finding that hole in the wall diner that looks like a dump outside but looks Greco-Roman inside, with inexpensive but GOOD food (and enough of it) can be a much better experience. Spending a hundred bucks on a chunk of meat the size of your palm, no matter HOW good it is, is going to leave you HUNGRY an hour after it's done. The other thing is to be certain that wherever you go, your date feels SAFE. So if it's a first date, you should play it safe. You CAN do this while still making it romantic as well, it just takes work, and a bit of research. I remember the first girl I ever took to a French restaurant., We were seeing a play afterwards (Katz, I think? Long time ago). I called immediately prior to leaving the house to ensure the food would be READY when we walked in. As in pre-ordered and waiting at the table, as we were on a bit of a time crunch. We got there, the table wasn't ready, the food hadn't even been started and they parked us at the bar. I was, of course, furious, but trying very hard to make it seem like it was no big deal. After waiting 20 minutes, We left. They tried to bill me for a meal that STILL hadn't even been started in the kitchen net. Steam coming out of my ears at this point. So we walked to the theater, and on the way we found a street vendor who knew how to make Schwarmas (I'm sure I spelled that wrong). She'd never had one, but I'd gotten addicted to them while I was in Saudi. So we had them double wrapped and snuck them into the theater. The play was ok, but we couldn't stop giggling as we snuck bites of our food while everyone else looked down their noses at us. Irreverence has its virtues, at times. It was memorable, and the BEST first date you can ever have is one that you never forget, because it was...

Gliding. Sailing, Riding. Trekking. I was proposed to in the Eiffel Tour in Paris France after a very long real and long distance courtship with a French Turkish man which was very romantic. However o...  see more >>

Gliding. Sailing, Riding. Trekking. I was proposed to in the Eiffel Tour in Paris France after a very long real and long distance courtship with a French Turkish man which was very romantic. However on reflection I think probably no more penile buildings for a while yet. I would rather new experiences to see real reactions not staged mannerisms. A picnic, atmospheric restaurant and a meaningful memorable date with thought behind it would be appreciated. I hate red flag speed or over familiar dating.

Some of my best dates were simply taking a long walk in the foothills of the Blue Ridge mountains. Obviously this is not possible in a city, but any date where you have a chance to talk and get to kno...  see more >>

Some of my best dates were simply taking a long walk in the foothills of the Blue Ridge mountains. Obviously this is not possible in a city, but any date where you have a chance to talk and get to know each other is good - and if it comes with nice scenery, all the better. Second best is sharing a great meal - I am a foodie

Considering how good the staff is at MM; it's going to be hard for me to talk to you if none of your photos is verified. It's a really simple thing to do and doesn't take long at all. Also, if you onl...  see more >>

Considering how good the staff is at MM; it's going to be hard for me to talk to you if none of your photos is verified. It's a really simple thing to do and doesn't take long at all. Also, if you only have one photo...come on...really? Most often I am going to think it's a scam. So, if you have either one of those or both of those situations happening be prepared to jump through some hoops to prove your identity.

There isn't a way to describe an ideal first date. As it varies from person to person. And what may be ideal for one date with one person. It may not fit for another. I'm realistic about many things i...  see more >>

There isn't a way to describe an ideal first date. As it varies from person to person. And what may be ideal for one date with one person. It may not fit for another. I'm realistic about many things in life, and haven't placed expectations on anything. As a side note... if there is a connection on the date, I would like to explore further