First date ideas huh! Well, there are so many that could be right; that it's not fair to limit just to one of the categories selected. I'm up for just about anything. I love being outdoors, so any out...  see more >>

First date ideas huh! Well, there are so many that could be right; that it's not fair to limit just to one of the categories selected. I'm up for just about anything. I love being outdoors, so any outdoor activity is good. I'm super competitive, so games are good as well. I actually hustled my way through college playing air hockey and pool, it helped pay the rent and buy food. I could do fine dining as well, but you would have to tell me what utensils to use for which course.

I feel the first date is always a unique opportunity that only happens once with each couple. It is not a matter of where, who is wearing what, what is on the screen or poured in a glass. A first date...  see more >>

I feel the first date is always a unique opportunity that only happens once with each couple. It is not a matter of where, who is wearing what, what is on the screen or poured in a glass. A first date is about what size the world is when the date is finished. The two of us come together, the world is vast, much going on around us. The nervous first few minutes are soon over, and the world shrinks to the surrounding area, what the two of us are doing together. Nervousness is replaced by curiosity. More personal questions are asked and the two of us begin to connect. The world shrinks... Time begins to do odd things at this point, and becomes a moot point. The conversation now has pauses of wonder, followed by eye contact that is saying far more than any words that are being spoken. The world shrinks... By the end of the evening, the world will just be the two of us. That is my goal, my idea. Letting the woman I am with feel she is the only one on Earth with me. The real world is waiting, it always is, but for a few hours on that first date, it can take a break.

You will find that I have arrived before you. You'll know it's me because I've told you what I'm wearing, and I'll know it's you because you'll be in your little black dress and heels, just like we pl...  see more >>

You will find that I have arrived before you. You'll know it's me because I've told you what I'm wearing, and I'll know it's you because you'll be in your little black dress and heels, just like we planned. I'll get up from my bar stool and greet you with a kiss on the cheek. There will be a drink waiting for you, and you'll be too polite to say you don't like it, but I'll know from the look on your face and we'll hand it back to the bartender and order you another. And another, until we find the one that makes your tongue curl up onto the rook of your mouth and your taste buds pop up off your tongues with the electricity of a first kiss. We'll be seated at our table next to one another, rather than across, because when you feel compelled to confess to me something you've never even told your girlfriends, you'll want to be whispering in my ear. And when I hold my hand out, palm up, you'll put yours in mine and feel the warmth of my pulse through my fingertips before you even realize that we're holding hands like little schoolchildren on a field trip to the museum. And maybe that's exactly where we'll go after dinner. To stroll hand-in-hand through the impressionists and the ancient sculptures on display, unearthed from the ruins of stone age civilizations just so we can marvel at the dexterity and imagination of an anonymous artist dead for three thousands years. When we reach the post-modern section, and we both exhale the sigh of boredom and confusion might be when I put my arm around your waist and kiss you in front of Andy Warhol's ugliest self portrait. But it won't matter what's hanging on the walls anymore, because we'll be in our own little lightning cage, making all of our surrounding a blur. We'll run thru the hallways of the museum to find a night club where we can dance away the energy and excitement of a first date. And when we stumble out onto the sidewalk late at night, it will feel like we've already been on three dates. Because we have.

Meeting on a simple bench in a park. Each of us brings a small item that is important to us. Then just sit there, tell us about the item´s story and see if we feel a connection. Something like that...  see more >>

Meeting on a simple bench in a park. Each of us brings a small item that is important to us. Then just sit there, tell us about the item´s story and see if we feel a connection. Something like that. If connection comes up, lets just discover the inner and outer world together.